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Performance Concerns & Separation Toolkit
Structured, dignified, and legally sound processes for the conversations no one prepares you for.
$395
The Problem This Solves
No one trains Montessori leaders for performance management.
The preparation is heavy on philosophy and light on the organizational reality that sometimes, someone is not performing — and the leader is responsible for addressing it. Most leaders improvise their way through performance conversations, hoping the situation resolves. When it doesn’t, they find themselves in a separation process they were never prepared for, with no documentation and real legal exposure.
The result isn’t just organizational — it’s deeply human. Poorly managed performance processes harm the employee, who deserves clarity and honest feedback rather than ambiguous signals and delayed accountability. They harm the team that watches an unresolved situation drag on and draws their own conclusions about whether standards are real. And they harm the leader who carries the weight of a problem they can’t solve because they don’t have the tools to approach it.
The Performance Concerns & Separation Toolkit provides the structure, language, and documentation framework to handle these situations with clarity, dignity, and appropriate legal grounding. It doesn’t make hard conversations easy. It makes them possible to have well.
What’s Included
33 documents covering performance management through separation.
Every document in this toolkit was built to address a specific failure point in how Montessori schools handle performance concerns — from the first conversation through the final communication to staff.
Performance Concern Framework
A structured model for identifying, categorizing, and responding to performance concerns — covering both conduct and practice issues, and distinguishing between concerns that require support, concerns that require accountability, and concerns that require both.
Progressive Discipline Templates (7)
Documented templates for verbal warning, written warning, performance improvement plan, final warning, and separation — all editable and reviewed in structure for legal soundness. Each template includes framing language and documentation fields.
Performance Improvement Plan (PIP) Template
A full PIP template with goal-setting, timeline, check-in structure, and documentation protocols — designed to give the employee a genuine pathway to improvement, not a pretext for termination.
Difficult Conversation Guide
A framework for preparing and conducting performance conversations — covering opening framing, listening structure, and documentation follow-up. Includes sample language for the specific moments leaders most often freeze.
Separation Process Guide
A step-by-step process for managing voluntary and involuntary separations — covering the conversation, documentation, communication to staff, final pay and logistics, and transition management in the aftermath.
Separation Communication Templates (5)
Templates for communicating a staff departure to different audiences — direct team, full staff, families, and board — written to maintain community trust while respecting confidentiality.
Documentation Standards Guide
Standards for how and what to document throughout a performance concern — protecting the school, the process, and the employee’s dignity. The most frequently overlooked element of performance management.
Legal Compliance Checklist
A reference checklist for common legal compliance considerations in performance management and separation. Note: this is structured guidance for knowing when to consult counsel, not legal advice itself.
Who It’s For
Every leader who has ever delayed a performance conversation they knew was necessary.
This toolkit is for any leader who has found themselves in a performance situation without the structure to address it well — and who recognizes that avoidance is its own form of harm. It is also for leaders who want to build the systems before they need them, so that when a difficult situation arises, the structure is already in place.
- Heads of school managing their first serious performance situation
- Directors responsible for staff performance across a program
- Schools that have experienced an unmanaged performance situation and want better systems
- HR leads building formal performance management infrastructure
- Schools where a separation was handled poorly and trust was damaged
- Leaders who want to be fair and clear but lack the tools to act on both
- Boards wanting assurance that the head has defensible HR processes in place
How to Use It
Read the Performance Concern Framework and the Documentation Standards Guide before using any individual template. The framework will help you assess what stage you’re in and which documents apply. Do not begin documentation after a concern has been identified — the most important insight in this toolkit is that documentation is a discipline built before you need it. If you are already in an active situation, consult your school’s counsel alongside this toolkit; the Legal Compliance Checklist will help you identify where your jurisdiction may require specific steps.
Performance Concerns & Separation Toolkit
$395
The structure to handle the hardest conversations — with clarity, dignity, and documentation that holds.
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